Life is a bowl of cherries. There are times in life when you aren't paying attention and you put one into your mouth just to bite into something dry, hard, and bitter. These are the moments that you were not ready to experience. Then there are the times when you plop a round, plump, burning red cherry or two into your mouth and they pop releasing their sweet, pungent, and savory juices. These are the moments your are not only ready for, but relish and long long for in fantasy and impatiently wait for the day to arrive. They are the new experiences in life that go beyond dream and imagination into the reality of life and flesh. I have tasted quite a range, but am always looking for the sweetest, most pungent, and sinfully delicious cherry yet.This past week I had a couple. They were delicious and I savor the flavor and essence in my mouth still. The combination of new people, energies, and experiences made them not only erotically sweet, but fulfilling as well. Yes, my NSA as a threesome was quite the success. I read recently in another blog that threesomes rule. I have to agree.
Afterwards, I wanted to share this with my boyfriend. After talking I found an incredibly complex aftertaste of amazement, fear, joy, accomplishment, and a renewed (something that had not yet faded in the least) desire to be with my him emotionally and sexually. It is not that I didn't appreciate him before, but now I just wanted to be with him and share my new concepts of intimacy with him as well.
As the days go be we will see how I develop. This was not my first threesome but my first legitimate NSA in a poly or non-monogamous relationship. It is like your birthday, you are officially and socially different, but inside you are still the same person making your way through the labyrinth of life. These were wonderful to taste and I look forward to so many more.
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Oh wow! Was this with the man you met for coffee? Was it with he & your b'friend? Your entry hints at what happened but few details! Were you the center of attention? How was this different than the last three-some you had? Sorry to ask but it reflects some of my own path & I wanted to see how yours turned out. Will you see him again?
You mentioned this is NSA. The 3-some I was first in started out that way, but I couldn't help falling for him. It pretty much ruined everything. Would love reading your thoughts on all of this.
maggieme,
Yes, this was with the man that I met for coffee with, and no not with my boyfriend but another woman. I have had threesomes with both another woman, a man and myself as well as two other men and myself.
This one was INCREDIBLY different, hence the reference to new cherries...
First of all, it was completely NSA, driven by good energy and sexual drive, some call it lust. All of my others were with people I knew and had familiar connections with. That just made for a mess each time.
Second, yes, I will hopefully see them both again. It was quite the release and rebirth where I didn't feel dirty, I just felt safe, secure, and full of excitement.
While the others involved have turned out to be people I really connect with on many other levels, love did not drive this in the least. In fact, it reinforced my feelings for my BF quite a bit.
With this new experience I feel safe in sharing him in a threesome in the future, where I could not say I felt as secure before.
I'll blog about my other lovers and attachments in the future. I still have some mental clean up with those to do before I am able to convey my thoughts concisely and honestly.
Please feel free to email me at my gmail address if you need more advice or just someone to talk to about your personal situation.
Yes, I, too had a mess when I slept with people I was close to. Haven't yet tried NSA sex yet but I definately want to. Don't want to have emotions tied up in the sex. I just want to experience pure sex with people I can feel comfortable with. That's what it sounds like you've accomplished.
Yet, do you think there's some danger in letting even an NSA fling go on too long lest emotional feelings develop & the NSA part drops away?
Wouldn't it be best to not be involved for too long?
MaggieMe
MaggieMe,
One cannot predict life. Anything is possible. It is possible to keep track of what it is that YOU truly want deep down and always striving for just that. It is easy to get caught up in the lives of others. We are sensual beings that feel others in more ways that one. You will never be able to control the thoughts, actions, or emotions of others. And...at best, we may not control our own actions, but we all strive to understand them.
Cheers,
MD
It truly is amazing how having sex with another person re-engergizes your love and connection with the person you're bonded with! Glad to see you "get it."
I'm so glad that everything went well for you! I also read SuperNova... Are you still flying? *smile*
Devil in Sexy Blue Dress,
Yes, I am still flying. I eagerly await time with my BF, and more NSA sex. My dreams are amazing, filled with strangers and lovers...yes, a true supernova!
Good for people to know.
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