Robert MapplethorpeTonight I am inspired to write about what it is that I find attractive. I have written about this on several occasions, but tonight I have a purpose. I am going to say what I like, and in return, please tell me what it is you like, even if your comment is anonymous...
I enjoy a lover that knows what they want. I want them most of all to want me. However, that can take many forms. Each person is different and it would be foolish of me to think that they would all be the same. If my lover does what they do with passion and fervor in a constant communication with me, that is all I need. That turns me on.
On a deeper note, it is that tacit willingness to explore each other and find out what it is each of us likes with each other in that moment. Being with an attentive lover is a dynamic experience. From taking risks to reacting to a simple sign such as breath, heat, wetness or eye contact the interaction is intense and new.
It takes a load of confidence to put yourself out there. I like it when my lover want to please me. If feels good. It is even better when what they are doing for me turns them on as well.
The sensitivity of my skin to your touch. Your breath on my neck. The firm hold of your arms. The sheer will with which you penetrate me.
So, lovers local and not, friends of the like as well as those that wish to remain anonymous...what is it that turns you on the most?
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`x~Will.
What is it that turns me on the most--the beauty that's inside my lover, what she really is and how she reveals that to me. Her long slow wet kisses that last a week, the nape of her neck where she's very sensitive to my lips, the way she snuggles in bed, the smile that dazzles me, the lilt in her voice, the way she presses herself against my body when she hugs, and those hugs that go on for days at at time, her arm that holds mine when we walk in the park, those eyes that hold only me, the scent of her hair in the morning as we wake, the total beauty that is her and I am hers for life.
Beau in Seattle
What romantics! I love it! Thank you.
MD
Enthusiasm is such an aphrodisiac! When I met the Lovely Victoria for dinner and she offered to "make out" with me at her apartment, the lack of passion more than took away the incredible hotness of her body. Good looks aren't enough for me.
Ahhh...enthusiasm. Tom, you are so right about that. Enthusiasm makes one feel desired...
I somehow suspect you are both enthusiastic and generate enthusiasm....
Which goes back to my idea of being desired. I react to desire with desire. Good point, Tom.
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